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LOVE not shown is LOVE unknown

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 HOW TO KNOW IF THE LOVE IS REAL  When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidences to attest to it. Below are some of the evidences... ✅ ATTENTION  When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.  ✅ CARE When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.  ✅ COMMUNICATION  When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of whom you love is a delight.  ✅ GIVING  The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily has to be money but there will be giving.  ✅  SPENDING TIME TOGETHER  When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.  ✅ SACRIFICE  The ultimate prove

The Four Basic Styles of Communication

  The Four Basic Styles of Communication 1. PASSIVE COMMUNICATION is a style in which individuals have developed a pattern of avoiding expressing their opinions or feelings, protecting their rights, and identifying and meeting their needs. As a result, passive individuals do not respond overtly to hurtful or anger-inducing situations. Instead, they allow grievances and annoyances to mount, usually unaware of the buildup. But once they have reached their high tolerance threshold for unacceptable behavior, they are prone to explosive outbursts, which are usually out of proportion to the triggering incident. After the outburst, however, they may feel shame, guilt, and confusion, so they return to being passive. Passive communicators will often:  fail to assert for themselves  allow others to deliberately or inadvertently infringe on their rights  fail to express their feelings, needs, or opinions  tend to speak softly or apologetically  exhibit poor eye contact and slumped body postu

πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ 12 Reasons Why Reading Books Should Be Part of Your Life:

  1. Knowledge Highway: Books offer a vast reservoir of knowledge on virtually any topic imaginable. Delve deep into history, science, philosophy, or explore new hobbies and interests.  Read everything objectively not subjectively.  2. Enhanced Vocabulary: Regular reading exposes you to a wider range of vocabulary, improving your communication skills and comprehension.  3. Memory Boost: Studies suggest that reading can help sharpen your memory and cognitive function, keeping your mind active and engaged.  4. Stress Reduction: Curling up with a good book can be a form of mental escape, offering a temporary reprieve from daily anxieties and a chance to unwind.  5. Improved Focus and Concentration: In today's fast-paced world filled with distractions, reading strengthens your ability to focus and concentrate for extended periods.  6. Empathy and Perspective: Stepping into the shoes of fictional characters allows you to develop empathy and gain a deeper understanding of different persp

LES BROWN BOOK COLLABORATION WITH DR. ELIYAHU 2024- COME BACK!

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πŸ’₯ πŸ’₯ πŸ”₯ πŸ”₯ ⚡️ ⚡️ πŸ’£ 🚨 SUPER EXCITED ‼️ Get The Comeback By Les Brown & Eliyahu Shmuel Ben Yah Feeling Stuck? It’s Time for a Comeback! 🌟 Are you struggling to overcome setbacks and find your path to success? Do you feel like your dreams are slipping away, despite your best efforts? It’s frustrating when obstacles keep blocking your way and every attempt to push forward seems to fall short. The struggle can feel isolating, and it’s easy to lose hope when you’re not seeing the progress you deserve. The Comeback by Les Brown is here to change that! This powerful new book, born from Les Brown’s wisdom and real-life experiences shared by his followers, offers a lifeline for anyone ready to reclaim their dreams. Packed with inspiring stories and practical advice, it’s the perfect guide to help you break through barriers and achieve your goals. Don’t let setbacks define your future. Embrace your comeback with Les Brown’s new book! Get your copy now and start turning your challenges int

18 Types of People on Social Media

 18  TYPES OF PEOPLE ON FACEBOOK, Instagram or any Social Media.  YOU kNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WE ALL HAVE AT LEAST ONE OF EACH OF THESE TYPES OF FRIENDS ON OUR LIST... 1) The "Lurker" - Never posts anything or comments on your post, but reads everything, and might make reference to your status if they... see you in public. 2) The "Hyena" - Doesn't ever really say anything, just LOLs and LMAOs at everything. ...  3) "Mr/Ms Popular" - Has 4367 friends for NO reason. 4) The "Gamer" - Plays Words With Friends, Mafia Wars, Bakes virtual cakes and stuff, etc., ALL DAY. 5) The "Prophet" - Every post makes reference to God or Jesus. 6) The "Thief" - Steals status updates... and will probably steal this one. 7) The "Cynic" - Hates their life, and everything in it, as evidenced by the somber tone in ALL of their status updates. 8) The "Collector" - Never posts anything either, but joins every group, and becomes fans

Teachable Mindset

10 WAYS TO DEVELOP A TEACHABLE MINDSET. Everyone has two teach-ability indexes, which consist of two variables: the willingness to learn and willingness to adapt to new information. For example, if your willingness to learn from a scale from 1 to 10 =10; but your willingness to adapt to new information is zero then your teachability index is non-existent. Truth should never come to you as a conquering hero, but as an ally, and if there’s anything that needs to be adjusted or changed, then be humble enough to accept the facts. An opinion is nothing more than feelings and emotions that yet have not been disapproved. Everyone is entitled to an opinion until disapproved. Remember, that feelings and emotions are good indicators but poor leaders. www.amazon.com/author/eliyahushmuel 1. Be Hungry: Maintain a natural curiosity about the world, current events and a willingness to learn from every experience. 2. Listen actively: Pay close attention when others are speaking, ask questions, and see

Pearls are Beautiful

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  PEARLS THAT ARE BEAUTIFUL! .. . Yet, we know that pearls are the product of pain ... Every pearl is the result of an oyster that has been wounded by a grain of sand that entered inside. An oyster which has not been wounded can not produce beads ... On the inside of the oyster is a substance called "nacre" or " nacar "as a grain of sand enters the oyster, it shall be covered with layers of nacre to protect itself. As a result, it builds up a beautiful and brilliant pearl. Have you felt hurt by words, or attitudes of someone? Have you been accused of saying things I never said? Were your ideas rejected or ridiculed? Have you accused been guilty of having done something u never did? Your attitude towards certain situations, is it misunderstood? Have you ever suffered the blows of indifference? Were  you  hurt precisely by those who least expect? Were you not valued ? So, forgive and make your wound a pearl. Cover your wound with several layers of love, remember that