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 HOW TO KNOW IF THE LOVE IS REAL  When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidences to attest to it. Below are some of the evidences... ✅ ATTENTION  When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.  ✅ CARE When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.  ✅ COMMUNICATION  When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of whom you love is a delight.  ✅ GIVING  The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily has to be money but there will be giving.  ✅  SPENDING TIME TOGETHER  When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.  ✅ SACRIFICE  The ultimate prove

  The Four Basic Styles of Communication 1. PASSIVE COMMUNICATION is a style in which individuals have developed a pattern of avoiding expressing their opinions or feelings, protecting their rights, and identifying and meeting their needs. As a result, passive individuals do not respond overtly to hurtful or anger-inducing situations. Instead, they allow grievances and annoyances to mount, usually unaware of the buildup. But once they have reached their high tolerance threshold for unacceptable behavior, they are prone to explosive outbursts, which are usually out of proportion to the triggering incident. After the outburst, however, they may feel shame, guilt, and confusion, so they return to being passive. Passive communicators will often:  fail to assert for themselves  allow others to deliberately or inadvertently infringe on their rights  fail to express their feelings, needs, or opinions  tend to speak softly or apologetically  exhibit poor eye contact and slumped body postu